Valentines Day is a difficult time for Cheaters
Cheaters have to try to satisfy both their spouse and lover with gifts and time. It can be costly and nearly impossible to be in two places at one time, it is the spouse who normally gets the short end of the stick. This is why the time leading up to Valentines Day is an ideal time to catch cheating partners.Most private investigators agree the weeks before February 14 are when cheaters leave most evidence of their affairs. Holidays, especially Valentines Day is when they take risk they normally would not have to take.
Many private investigators say that in the past few years the number of people looking for proof of their partner's infidelity has surged. It is too painful, to sit around waiting to find out the truth. If there is infidelity they want to, know now and move on with their lives.
Christopher Paoletti owner of Infidelity Investigations said Valentine's Day requires extra effort on the part of adulterers to satisfy their love interests. Paoletti, private investigator, said giveaway signs of affairs were additional time spent away or coming home late, be particularly aware if the partner tells you, "You're are crazy" when confronting them.
Other tell-tale signs are a flurry of activity on the credit card, unexplained cash withdrawals and lots of disappearances to urgent meetings, he said.
While these things could also be the behavior of a faithful lover planning a Valentine's surprise, those paired up with an adulterer usually know the difference.
"I find by the time they (clients) come to us they are pretty certain something is going on, they just want proof."
I advised those who suspected their loved may be cheating, to talk them over with a trusted friend. I also list many signs of a cheating spouse on my internet site, www.infidelitypolice.com.
Paoletti said a few years ago I would receive a couple of calls a week about investigating infidelity, but now I get about six enquiries a day. The rise of internet dating, which allowed people to create fictitious profiles and make contact with hundreds of singles, makes adultery easier.
The next time you in Victoria Secrets ask any sales women if it is common for them to sell two sets of underwear to customers for Valentine's Day.
You may find "One set gets paid for with the credit card for the wife and the other gets paid with cash for the 'secretary',''
Christopher Paoletti is the Founder and President of Infidelity Investigations, an elite Detective agency specializing in covert surveillance. www.infidelitypolice.com
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