Infidelity Investigations, LLC
Infidelity Investigations, LLC

Questions you should ask yourself to determine if your mate is cheating?

  1. Are you having a tough time communicating with your spouse?
  2. Does your spouse disappear without a good excuse?
  3. Does your marriage seem to be slipping away?
  4. Have you been suspicious of your spouse's sexual habits?
  5. Is the intimacy less than normal?
  6. Does your spouse argue when you ask for an explanation of his/her whereabouts?
  7. Are the simple things, like getting bills paid on time or spending time together, not important to your spouse anymore?
  8. Is there a problem with money?
  9. Do you notice more unexplained ATM transactions?
  10. Are you not invited on business trips?
  11. Have you noticed more mileage on your spouse's vehicle that does not add up?
  12. Has your spouse begun to have an interest in hobbies that don't involve you?
  13. Are you feeling a real distance in your relationship?
  14. Have you received numerous hang-up phone calls?
  15. Does your spouse get touchy when you ask to use his private cell phone?
  16. Have you been embarrassed by your spouse when he displays affection to someone else in public?
  17. Has your spouse changed his/her personality?
  18. Are you feeling insecure?
  19. Can you describe your marriage as a struggle?
  20. Are you feeling inadequate as a spouse?
  21. Do you get excuses too often when your spouse comes home late?
  22. Do you fight constantly?
  23. Does your spouse put you down all the time?
  24. Have you found love letters or notes to your spouse?
  25. Is your spouse preoccupied with sex?
  26. You often notice atypical erratic behavior by your spouse.
  27. The wedding ring is not worn.
  28. A " glow" comes over her
  29. Mutual friends become distant or act strangely toward you.
  30. He stops confiding in you or seeking advice.
  31. He shows a sudden interest in new styles of music.
  32. You find she buys a cell phone and didn't let you know.
  33. He sets up a separate cell phone account billed to the office.
  34. She buys a pre-paid cell phone without your knowledge
  35. He claims not to know whose cell phone it is that you found in his vehicle or briefcase.
  36. Does your spouse make regular excuses and refrain from sexual activity with you?
  37. The amount of money being deposited into your checking account shrinks without a plausible explanation.
  38. He becomes " accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
  39. Do you get excuses too often when your spouse comes home late?
  40. He insists the child seat, toys, etc., have no place in his car.
  41. He abruptly participates with the laundry.
  42. New love techniques are tried.
  43. He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you, without good reason.
  44. He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
  45. Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
  46. You discover by accident he or she took vacation day or personal time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.
  47. The pay stub never reflects all the overtime.
  48. Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
  49. He spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
  50. She deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
  51. Certain incoming caller information is deleted from the caller ID box.
  52. She always has her cell phone turned off after leaving the home and the excuses don't add up.
  53. A new e-mail account is opened and but you are not told about it.
  54. He or she has a sudden preoccupation with appearance.
  55. You find intimate apparel or other small gift-type items you did not give your spouse.
  56. Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is " touchy" and easily moved to anger.
  57. You receive calls where the caller hangs up when your voice is heard.
  58. A low voice or whisper is used on the phone or she hangs up quickly as you enter the room.
  59. She has a loss of attention to the activities in the home.
  60. A definite change in attitude toward everyone in the home becomes obvious.
  61. She sleeps with her purse by the bed.
  62. He tells you to reach him at a different telephone number.
  63. Did you or your spouse experience the effects of adultery during your childhood?
  64. Your intuition--gut feeling--tells you something is amiss with your relationship.


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